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Really?

I know I probably shouldn't even involve myself in this at all and I probably won't keep this post up for long...but when I see that one of my blog posts has gotten over 600 views it makes you wonder what the heck is going on! It led me to find that there are people out there on internet forums who do nothing but bash and make fun of other people...The forum was actually not about me but another blogger, but somehow I got brought into the conversation!?  I realize that I was brought up in a positive way at first, but it still just really blows my mind. I put myself out there with my blog and I know that with that comes criticism, but wow, I never realized how far people take it. I wish I had not even seen it! I can tell you that I WON'T be looking at it again. I'm all about the positive. :)

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  1. Hey Lindsay. I recently started following your blog. Not really sure what exactly this post is referring to, but I can imagine. I started following your ramblings for fitness tips and inspiration. I've stayed for your candidness. It takes a lot of gets to put yourself out there. Keep being awesome ;-)

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    1. Thank you so much! I just can't believe the negativity that is out there!

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  2. No idea which post you are talking about or what is being said, but you are such an inspiration for me and I absolutely love reading your blog. No matter what you do, someone will have something to say about it. Hard to ignore what people say, but just remember you inspire and motivate a lot of people out there! :)

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    1. There is a forum of people just bashing a certain blogger. I understand their concerns but the fact that people do this boggles my mind! Thank you so much for the kind wordsit means a lot!!

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  3. The Internet is full of cowardly critics who hide behind their anonymity. I have no idea what people might try to criticize about you or your blog. I have always been inspired by your hard work and your beliefs. Keep up the good work and don't worry about what the negative spectators think.

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    1. Well, the forum was bashing another blogger and my name got brought up but still...I can't believe that people actually spend their time just bashing people! Wow! Thanks so much, Tom, I really appreciate it!

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  4. Hi Lindsay!
    I just wanted to let you know that I found your blog a couple days ago from this website, and I think you are awesome and inspiring! Your blog is great! I love reading about your life, your training, and the love you have for the Lord! Keep being you! :)

    Abby

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    1. Hi Abby! Thank you so much for commenting! It really means a lot to hear that. I just try to be myself and have fun with this blog, and that is all that matters! :)

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